33 Days Social Skills, Approaching & Dating Immersion
Become an attractive person, start meeting beautiful partners, create an amazing lifestyle and master your social skills with this INTENSE live immersion program.
In one of our worldwide locations.
Over 475+ '4 Week Natural' Immersion Students Since 2015
āMy ability to attract partners has gone through the roof after 4 Week Natural. The quality of people Iām dating now, I wouldnāt have believed it a month ago."
- Sam, 23, Dublin, Ireland
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The 4 Week Natural Program Report
We have compiled the student reports from over 100 graduates. Here you can get detailed first hand accounts on what the program is really like, what the instructor is really like and the reality of meeting new people on this pick up and dating immersion program. Individual results may vary. But here you can hear first hand the reality of the program, as spoken by participants.
The Chapters Of The Report Video:
00:00 Introduction to 4 Week Natural and the Executive Coach
02:07 Reservations & Personal Obstacles
04:36 The Commitment Of The Program
06:55 Comparison Of Short Form Training To Immersion Training
08:07 What you will learn on the 4 Week Natural
15:35 Reports Of Connecting With New People During The Program (censored)
27:16 The Skill & Experience Of The Executive Coach
34:08 The Commitment of the Instructor
38:27 About The Colleagues You Will Undergo The Course With
40:45 Student Reflection on the 4 Week Natural Experience
44:53 Student Reports months and years after the program
48:30 Evaluation of the Value proposition
52:39 4 Week Natural Program Endorsement
Alex Social Video Blog:
Dating & Natural Game
āI only have one regret and that is I wish I had done a 4 Week Natural years agoā
- Erez, 27, California
What Is The ā4 Week Naturalā
The ā4 Week Naturalā is a 5 week immersive coaching experience focusing on your personal development, communication skills, implementation of social psychology, understanding social psychology, facing your social fears and limitations and learning how to become naturally attractive, so as to become more socially successful, become attractive to prospective partners and create many options for dates, leading to serious relationships.
This personal development is achieved with live coaching and personal feedback in all areas of your social life. You will participate in many seminars, many 1-1 meetings with your coach, experiences in night club venues, experiences in day time social venues, utilisation of dating apps where the coach will teach you principles that are known to work, whilst giving you personal feedback on your own unique blindspots and social limitations, whilst remaining focused on your lifestyle and life plans.
Night time social event sessions can take place in venues like bars, parties, night clubs, ticketed events and festivals. Day time social events sessions can can place in venues like shopping districts, parks, festivals, beaches, cafe districts, bookshops, tourist attraction districts or transit centres.
The coaching and guidance given to you during the 4 week natural experience has come from the extensive knowledge and experience of our head coach Alex Social who has coached students in social situations 45 weekends of the year, every year, since 2007. Prior to that live coaching experience our head coach had been a full time student of psychology and behavioural science at University with intentions of becoming a cognitive behavioural therapist.
What is our goal for you on the 4 Week Natural Experience? All students have slightly different goals. However our plan is to emphatically enhance your personal development and social skills, so you evolve into a popular, charismatic person who is both universally liked, and respected. This requires becoming more socially outgoing and expressive which we guide you to become during coaching sessions in many social situations, including seminars, drills, personal counselling and real life experience.
Our curriculum plan is to make you naturally attractive to your prospective partners.
You may need to travel to one of our worldwide locations.
Our coaching goal is for you to become a person who people seek to have relationships with, to become a person who is socially respected, and to become a person who is socially liked.
To become a natural. In 4 Weeks.
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The 4 Week Natural Inventory of Events
Below is an outline of the events you will attend during the experience.
Each students gets 5 dedicated night event social sessions and debriefs, and 5 dedicated day event social sessions and debriefs. Each student can join in and participate with other students sessions.
*If there are 8 students, and two groups of four, then there will be two night game sessions each week. Meaning you would have ten dedicated coaching sessions on the course and and ten optional bonus sessions to attend. Bonus sessions are not compulsory for you to attend.
Dedicated Night Social Event 1
Dedicated Night Social Event 2
Dedicated Night Social Event 3
Dedicated Night Social Event 4
Dedicated Night Social Event 5
Bonus Night Social Event 1
Bonus Night Social Event 2
Bonus Night Social Event 3
Bonus Night Social Event 4
Bonus Night Social Event 5
Dedicated Focus Debrief Night Social Event 1
Dedicated Focus Debrief Night Social Event 2
Dedicated Focus Debrief Night Social Event 3
Dedicated Focus Debrief Night Social Event 4
Dedicated Focus Debrief Night Social Event 5
Bonus Debrief Night Social Event 1
Bonus Debrief Night Social Event 2
Bonus Debrief Night Social Event 3
Bonus Debrief Night Social Event 4
Bonus Debrief Night Social Event 5
1 -1 With Alex 1
1 -1 With Alex 2
1 -1 With Alex 3
1 -1 With Alex 4
Fashion And Grooming Consultation Session And Shopping
Dedicated Focus Day Social Event 1
Dedicated Focus Day Social Event 2
Dedicated Focus Day Social Event 3
Dedicated Focus Day Social Event 4
Dedicated Focus Day Social Event 5
Dedicated Focus Debrief Day Social Event 1
Dedicated Focus Debrief Day Social Event 2
Dedicated Focus Debrief Day Social Event 3
Dedicated Focus Debrief Day Social Event 4
Dedicated Focus Debrief Day Social Event 5
Seminar 90m-120m Night Social Event Strategy
Seminar 90m Physical Communication + Voice Power
Seminar 90m-120m Phone Communication
Seminar 90m-120m Dating Apps Photos and Strategy
Seminar 90m-120m Dating Apps Bio Strategy
Seminar 90m-120m Range Of Emotions and Humor #1 Expression
Seminar 90m-120m Range Of Emotions and Humor #2 Beating Tests
Seminar 90m-120m Screening
Seminar 90m-120m Qualification
Meet Up With Past And Present 4 Week Natural Students
Photoshoot 1 Dating Apps And Social Media ~ 100photos
Photoshoot 2 Dating Apps And Social Media ~ 100photos
Photoshoot 3 Dating Apps And Social Media ~ 100photos
Photoshoot 4 Dating Apps And Social Media ~ 100photos
Photoshoot 5 Dating Apps And Social Media ~ 100photos
Photoshoot 6 Dating Apps And Social Media ~ 100photos
Photoshoot 7 Dating Apps And Social Media ~ 100photos
Photoshoot 8 Dating Apps And Social Media ~ 100photos
Possible Emergency trouble shooting sessions
Emergency response and assistance in the case of accidents and incidents
Final meeting and conclusion seminar
āI brought Alex into Real Social Dynamics because I wanted to learn from him... Alexander is one of the best in the game that has ever done it.ā
- Owen Cook, www.selfmasteryco.com
Your 4 Week Natural Schedule Template
Below we have displayed a typical template of our 4 Week Natural Schedule.
Every program is different. And every schedule is created to suit the existing commitments of the students registered on the program. Each city and culture is different so we may start day social event sessions and night social event sessions later or earlier according to that event location.
On our schedule Alex is the one and only coach, we do not have any part time/amateur assistant coaches. When you do a coaching session, there is a maximum 4-1 student instructor ratio. That is, Alex the one coach, and four students at a time.
There are a maximum of 8 students per four week natural event.
Participating students are put into two groups of four, (based on lifestyle, age or experience). Group A, and Group B.
As you can see there are five night social event sessions for each student. BUT, you are also allowed to attend the other night social event sessions of the other group of students where you will be involved, and can participate.
Youāll have five night social event sessions with focus, and a further five bonus night social event sessions with partial focus.
This is the same for day social events. Youāll have five focuses sessions, and five bonus sessions.
Notice the fashion coaching and analysis session is early on in the course, leading to eight or more dedicated photoshoots. As you continue to get experience in photoshoots you will continue to get better photos, refine your style and create build a very high quality dating app profile.
Notice the seminars are run early in the program to train and prepare you for social events for the night social sessions and day social sessions.
The texting communication seminar is always the first Sunday night of the 4 week natural course. Throughout the remainder of the program you will continue to focus on your text communication with Alex during your 1-1 meetings, during day event coaching sessions, and during night event coaching sessions. Text communication skills requires ongoing coaching from the start to finish of the 4 week natural course.
Youāll have 4x 1-1 Sessions private coaching sessions with you coach Alex, youāll have a 1-1 coaching sessions with Alex once about every 3 days on the program.
WE WANT TO BE PERFECTLY CLEAR, below is a TEMPLATE and not the set schedule.
Once you place your deposit for the 4 week natural program, you will be sent a detailed formation form asking about your professional commitments so we can CUSTOMISE THE SCHEDULE TO YOU PERSONALLY.
To reiterate, the schedule is custom designed on your needs and commitments. Alex will interview you before the event to establish your scheduling needs and limitations.
Example Schedule To Help You Plan The 33 Days
Look Closely at the images of each week below to get an idea of the planned schedule for your event. All fixtures are flexible.
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The 4 Week Natural Curriculum
Immersive Coaching With The Worlds Most Experienced Pick-Up And Dating Coach. Train In Real Life Situations, Bars Nightclubs, Parks, Book Stores, Seminars Interactive excercises and Counselling.
[33 day span of Coaching]
Night Social Events
How to detect indications of interest
Incidental approaches: āIt just happenedā
Re-approach to build familiarity without being needy
Create many connections, then work with best connections
Correctly establish physical comfort
Get accepted by their friends
Give space to cause reciprocal interest
Never run out of things to say
Opening stack of conversation and conversational dynamics
Increase connection and intimacy correctly and at the right time
Leave a venue with the prospective partner smoothly without having to actively āpullā
Daytime social events
How to approach without being awkward or putting pressure on the person you are approaching
How to approach is a socially appropriate way thats sustainable
Get the person to invite you to continue the interaction
The proper balance between talking about yourself and learning about the person youāre talking to
How to get the prospective partner talking about themself without asking lots of questions
How to establish trust and prevent defensiveness
Make the person wonder what happens next
How to make a prospective phone number or point of contact number solid
Inner Game
Take control of your (lack of) motivation towards prospective partners
33 day internalisation that āYou Are Enoughā
Eliminate approach and social anxiety
Learn to see yourself as a leader and social host, to those youāre attracted to
Learn to work in response to closed off reactions because you can work with ātestsā and a range of reactions from people youāre first connecting with
Liberate yourself to act freely in any social situation
Face your darkest fears and biggest limitations under the coaches guidance to reach personal resolutions
Never be needy: how to internalise freedom from outcome
Reach relaxed arousal: state control and flow state
Experience the enlightenment: acceptance of the self, the environment, and psychology of he people you talk to
Social Skills Masterclass
Dynamic conversational openers and multiple conversational pathways
Maintain confident posture and body language
Vocal coaching
Show empathy by giving people polite ways to cease conversation so as to resume later
Evaluate quickly and effectively logistics and availability
How to appeal to how others see themselves
Express a full range of emotions
Learn to talk infinitely
Win frame battles and master ābanterā
Overcome initial rejection
Attractive self-amusement
Win-win game: Achieve social success while building up everyone around you
Building Attraction
Establish an attractive frame immediately
Interact with prospective partners in a physically appropriate way that adheres to safe social practise
Utilize the coaching teamās arsenal of verbal lines that work
Create deliberate pauses
Keep your prospective partnerās attention in conversation
Get prospective partners qualifying themselves
How to socially appropriately persist in a tasteful way
Be deliberately illogical to create fun, excitement banter and flirting
How to complement a persons personality, rather than simple aesthetic compliments
Create a fear of loss by being outgoing social and naturally enjoying meeting and getting to know many people
Tailor your vibe to each individual prospective partner
Master the skill of responding to a prospective partnersās āshit testsā or verbal tests and playful challenges
Build and maintain tension and arousal in conversation and connection
Text Communication & Dating App Connections
Pick the right first photo to make prospective partners read more
Incorporate subsequent photos that make for an excellent dating app profile
Write an engaging profile with in depth bio coaching
8 photoshoots to get 1st class photographs for your dating apps
Build your market value through Instagram and social media
Keep prospective partners engaged in conversation over a longer timeframe until you can set a meet up
How to propose dates in a way where you donāt risk rejection
ā 1 Full Fashion/Cosmetic Make Over
Fashion, Style, Cosmetics and Grooming from professional style coach with 6+ years experience.
ā 8 Dating App Photoshoots
1000+ New photos for your dating apps and social media. Taken by a professional portrait photographer with 9 years experience.
33 Day Transformation Experience
Direct Coaching, Not Assistant Coaching
Alex will be your coach at every single session. Most companies place you with an assistant coach for some of your live coaching sessions. Even though many guys want to be Alexās assistant coaches, Alex doesnāt take them on because he knows youāre here to work with him directly.
Become Your Strongest Self
Itās very hard to see at yourself from the outside the way others do. With experience, Alex has become extremely good at pinpointing the essence of your personality and how it affects how others perceive you. Blindspots, sticking points ā Alex will tell you exactly what you need to do to make people perceive you as an attractive person, and heāll walk you through every step of building your new habits.
Trophy Of Completion
Upon graduating from your program, you will be part of the 4 Week Natural Community. You will receive a custom-finished 4wN Medallion, you will be connected with the network of previous 4wN graduates around the world whom you can wing with, and will be welcome to meet up with Alex and the crew on any future 4wN program to catch up with Alex and participate in the scheduled sessions.
Crush First Impressions
Alex will provide an ongoing fashion consultation to help you build your particular style and make sure youāre making a great first impression. Youāll go over hair, attire, grooming, and general visual aesthetics to perfect your look. In addition, you will get an outlined health, workout, and nutrition game plan customised to you should you need it and designed to help you attain the look that youād like to be able to achieve with your physique.
4x Personal Counselling Sessions
Four 1 on 1 sessions with Alex talking about fears, past experiences, hopes, and dreams. Alex had studied to be a counsellor becoming an executive coach, and in your 1-1 sessions you have a chance to focus on personal issues, goal setting, overcoming mental blocks and deciphering your social world.
Get Dates
Do prospective partners often seem warm in person, but then never respond after giving you their contact info?
You will learn how to use text communication and social media to make prospective partners actually become MORE interested over time.
True Personal Transformation
āIāve done boot camps before, but I find myself falling back to old habits when going homeā Most self help coaches offer 3 day boot camps. Some offer 7 day courses. But you know there is no such thing as a magic pick up line or technique. You didnāt sign up for that. Youāre here to become a better version of yourself and create a permanent and lasting transformation.
Convert Dates to Relationships
Say you meet a person during the program. It might take a few days just to set up the date. With a bootcamp, your coach would already be long gone! But Alex will be there to help you every step of the way. Heāll advise you on the best locations to go, best ways to conduct yourself during the date, and be ready to discuss any confusing situations with you after the completion of the date.
8x Photoshoots
Besides coaching, Alex is also an experienced professional portrait photographer. Heāll take professional-quality pictures of you to take your Tinder profile and dating apps to the next level.
Daily Coaching Access + 15 Coaching Sessions
You will have 5-10 day social event sessions, 5-10 night social event sessions, and 8 bonus (inner game, tinder game, etc) sessions evenly spread out over the duration of 4 weeks. Thatās the equivalent of 3+ weekend bootcamps! In addition, you will be able to contact Alex daily throughout the entire program. Coaching will never be far away.
Win at Tinder
Alex will customise each and every studentās Tinder and dating app profiles to ensure you lead the competition in the dating app space and ensure you can get desirable matches. You will be advised on ideal photos, bios, prompts, conversation skills, message openers, and how to call to action in a way that consistently sets up dates.
Wingmen and Mastermind For Life
After spending 4 weeks with your fellow students and going out together again and again, youāll have friends for life who are cool and socially experienced. The perfect social colleagues! Not only from your 4 week Natural program, but you join the community of hundreds of students from all 4 Week Natural Programs.
āThis Ridiculous Australian man who happens to have really good gameā¦ā¦Weāve been big influences in each others gameā
- Todd Valtine, www.toddvdating.com
The Best Instructional Videos, Only Available At The Live Event
Access to the best instructional video library in the world.
During your time on the 4 Week Natural Program you will be given an iPad with a library of aver 35 hours of instructional video. The video content on the iPads are unlike anything you can find online. This instructional content is not available online, and can only be accessed during the live coaching event.
4 Week Natural Immersion Established 2014
1 Coach, 28 cities, 5 continents, 8 programs per year, +480 students graduated
About Alex Social
The 4 Week Natural Instructor Alex Social
The most experienced pick up and dating coach in the world. 2007 - present.
Alex studied Psychology and Behavioural Therapy before starting his career as a Lead Instructor at Real Social Dynamics in 2007.
At RSD, he ran over 315 bootcamps, 87 seminars, over 160 free seminar presentations around the world and personally coached over 6276 people.
His online courses and YouTube videos on social dynamics, pick up, dating and relationships have been watched by several million people online.
Since 2007 he has been coaching people in the live social environments at least 3 days a week, 45 weeks a year, making him one of the most experienced pick up and dating coaches in the world.
Today, he is the founder and Head Coach of 4 Week Natural where he runs his coveted 4 Week Natural Immersion programs.
Over 495 clients have taken part in this program, which has been designed to be the "last pick and dating" program you'll ever need.
Pick Up & Dating Coach
Pick Up & Dating Coach
Life Coach
Speaker
Executive Coach
Creator 4 Week Natural
Established 4 Week Natural
2015 - present
6-8 4wN events per year since 2015
490 students coached and counting
300 + Youtube Tutorials Uploaded
2007 - present
Tedx Talk CGCMohali
2016
Dating and Socialising Around The World
21 Convention Presentation
2014
āCold Approach Masteryā
Keynote Speaker
Sopot Summit Keynote Speaker
2019
ā17 steps of night gameā
Keynote Speaker
Lead Instructor Real Social Dynamics
2007-2014
45 x 3 day bootcamps, per year
8 Years Lead instructor
340 bootcamps coached
Online Program Released āSocial Encryptedā
2015
Online Masterpiece about Night time social events with Extensive Instructional Videos
Created, video demonstrated and taught
Online Program Released āNo Reason Youāre Not Enoughā
2016
Online Masterpiece about Inner Game and personal development
Created, video demonstrated and taught
Online Program Released āDay Game Phone Gameā
2017
Online Masterpiece on Day time social events Phone Game and dating apps.
Created, video demonstrated and taught
Online Program Released āConversation Casanovaā
2022
Online Masterpiece about Conversation Skills and Range Of Emotions
Created, video demonstrated and taught
One of the best things about the 4 Week Natural is the network of students. The team you have your experience with. The future comrades, and the shared Experience.
Itās extremely rare to find likeminded people to connect with who are humble enough to learn from someone else, and adventurous enough to take action.
4 Week Natural Students, and the 4 Week Natural Alumni Community will become some of your best comrades and associates.
The fun you have with the team, the adventure, and the shared experience is equally as good as the course itself.
Where else can you sign up to meet excellent people that you will be forced to make life long connections with?
"What I really appreciated was the fact that the coach genuinely cared about each of us and he was really invested in our success"
- Mitch, 28, London, England
Training Value Breakdown
$31,947
33 Days of Transformational Coaching
$3,600* 11 day skillset training
$3,600* 11 day inner game mastery
$3,600* 11 day emotional transformation
$4,000* Phone, Text & Date Coaching
$4,000* Exclusive Video Content
$4,000* Dating Apps Photoshoot x 8
$4,000* Fashion And Style Makeover
$1,150* 4 x 1 Hour Counselling Sessions
$4,697* Access to Future 4wNāās
$31,947
Total Cost Of 4 Week Natural Immersion
Included: 33 days Training (~65 scheduled coaching events for each program), 5-10 night social event training, 5-10 day social event training, 4x 1on1ās, fashion make over, 4x photoshoots, 5-10 debriefs, 10+ seminar sessions, phone communication coaching, text communication coaching, tinder communication coaching , full pick up and dating immersion, elite coaching from executive coach, lifetime access to future programs*
Deposit Time of Registration
$999usd
+$3599usd.
ā¦Balance due seven days before commencement of your event.
*Once You Complete One 4 Week Natural Immersion, You Can Join All Future Programs For Free As An Alumniā¦
The 4 Week Natural Immersion Program is the ONLY Pick-Up and Dating program that does not want you as a repeat customer.
You must adhere to certain doās and donāts when participating as an alumni student.
We expect that once you have graduated one 4 Week Training Immersion, you will not need further training.
You will be fully competent at pick-up and dating.
Nonetheless. Experience in real life social situations counts for a lot.
So we encourage you to continue your immersion on further programs to develop your skillset, self trust, and reference points.
When on supplementary programs, you will already have a clear picture of whats required of you as a student, and what to focus on in field, that you will not require excessive attention from your coach.
But, as a graduated student of the 4 Week Natural Immersion you will be fully training in the Pick-Up-dating language and the skill set that youāll be able to communicate a lot with your coach, and other students very quickly.
You return as a peer and a social colleauge.
Not as a student.
Contact Alex to organise you into future programs, and prepare to meet your new wings.
Frequently Asked Questions?
I have a day job, would 4 Week Natural work with my schedule?
4wN is the only program in the world designed to be taken alongside a 9-5 career. Itās made to leave you with habits that will be sustainable as opposed to giving you a crazy 3-day experience that will never transfer into your real life.
Alex will send you a form to assess your working hours and your other commitments, then structure your program to fit your schedule.
Of course, when we teach at vacation destinations such as Croatia, Mexico and Thailand those locations have a non Monday to Friday 9-5 schedule. However, there are many students work remotely during the program.
Is 4wN a good fit for beginners?
4 Week Natural is designed to teach you to socialize with anyone, anywhere. Alex has coached every type of student. So 4wN is effective both for beginners who are socially well adjusted as well as those who are socially maladjusted. If youāre a complete beginner who feels anxiety at the thought of approaching and talking to a stranger, let alone an attractive perspective partner, 4wN will open up a new world of connections for you.
Is 4wN a good fit for advanced students?
If youāve already made progress in the social arena, congratulations! Alex will very quickly assess your current level, and if youāre ready to absorb more advanced concepts he will jump you ahead to those. Whether youāve come to this website because youāve hit a plateau or because youāre just looking to fix the small mistakes that may be costing you results, learning from such an experienced coach is a very effective way to reach your true potential.
What is the schedule of the program like?
You can see a detailed example of the schedule above.
Youāll have 1 focused coaching day social event sessions per week and 1 bonus day social event session per week. You have 1 focused coaching night social event session per week and 1 bonus night social event sessions per week.
You also have all the dedicated curriculum sessions. There will also be a 2 day recess about half-way through the program allowing you to recover, experiment on your own, or just spend time with your new social colleuges from the program.
The exact dates and times are very flexible and will scheduled around your availability, commitments, and any unforeseen circumstances you run into.
Youāll also be able to request a schedule balanced more towards day social events or night social events if you prefer one over the other.
What are the usual times for coaching sessions?
Day social event: ~4-7
Curriculum: ~6-10
Night social event: ~10:30-2.30
Is Alex going to be there for every coaching session?
Yes. Alex knows youāre here to work specifically with a world-leading coach and not an assistant coach. He doesnāt work with any assistant coaches.
What is the live coaching student to instructor ratio for social events?
At most 4:1. Other companies in the industry go as high as 15:1. In rare occasions 4:1 when a students needs to make up for a lost session due to scheduling issues, sickness, or social commitments.
All students are welcome to join every session to absorb by spectating, but the 4 students being coaches that session get Alexās primary attention.
What if I have a date during one of the scheduled coaching sessions?
Take the date as a priority. Alex will reschedule your coaching session. But the Seminars cannot be rescheduled.
What happens if I get sick during the program?
Students frequently get the common flu and we anticipate that. The program schedule is very flexible and we simply reschedule your coaching sessions accordingly.
What happens after I complete the 4wN?
4wN is designed to be the last pickup and dating program youāll ever take or need. At the same time, after completing your program you will always be welcome to join us on subsequent programs to wing with Alex and the students infield. Many of our graduates join us later on for adventures, good times, to catch up, and to re-experience the eventfulness that is the 4wN.
Why is the program so cheap?
Because we donāt want to price out people in the age range of 20-30 years old who can really benefit from this program.
The reason we can offer this cheap price is because 4wN has a strong and simple coaching structure with a direct coach-student connection. In addition, since we stay in the same city for 30 days, our travel and accommodation expenses are low.
Do we book our own housing?
Yes. This helps keep the program tuition inexpensive, and we can focus directly on teaching you rather than managing accommodations.
Some students opt for very humble accommodations while others opt for luxurious accommodations.
Do you have any tips regarding accommodations?
Yes. Once you place the deposit you enter the event group chat and we advise on accomodation locations and insights about the event location.
What happens once I place my deposit?
Youāll receive an email instructing you to connect directly with Alex and with the 4wN organisational chat group for your program to allow you to organise your experience.
Is there a money back guarantee?
If at the conclusion of the program, under the condition that you participated in full by following all instructions and you were on time to each session and committed yourself to the instructions in each session, you ask Alex for a complete refund, in person, then yes there is a money back guarantee. You must ask in person on the last day of the program. If you do not follow instructions you are ineligible for a refund. If you are late to sessions or miss sessions you are ineligible for a refund.
Can I get my deposit back?
Yes, if you meet both of these conditions:
Notice is given to us at the latest 45 days before the start date of the program you signed.
When you contact us, it is still within 6 months since your deposit transaction date.
Are payment plans available?
Yes, only in the case if you are a current student of a learning institution. All programs sell out 8/8 students and oftentimes students who are prepared to pay in full will get priority over students who propose a payment plan.
How much money will I need to live during that month?
The cost of living greatly varies by city. You can check the price of accommodations on sites like Airbnb. Besides accommodations, living can be cost effective if you eat exclusively at grocery stores. In addition, Alex will ensure all venues you go to will be inexpensive or free.
How much money will I need for the fashion makeover?
No money is required. Itās at your discretion how much you want to invest to implement the advice Alex will give you. However, the recommendations are usually about 50-150 USD.
How many applicants are allowed per city?
We allow up to a maximum of 8 applicants per city so that Alex can focus individually on each student, and give each student the attention that they deserve.
This also gives us the chance to divide everyone into ācrewsā of 4 people based on lifestyle and demographics that can team up and work with each other through the program and beyond.
What's your policy regarding alcohol during the program?
Take it easy on the alcohol during your program. Alcohol is not forbidden, but itās also not encouraged. Alex will teach you to socialise in a non-inhibited without Alcohol. If he feels youāre getting carried away with alcohol, Alex will point it out to you and will get you back on track.
Is it true that we get a custom made Steel Medallion for completing the program?
Yes! Itās true, itās good to have something physical to take away from the experience.
Will my privacy and images be secure and protected during my 4wN experience?
Yes, your privacy is secure during the experience. Now more than ever people are conscious about their image, their data, and their digital footprint. We are a low profile company. We have a low social media presence, and little advertising and marking efforts. We have a low presence, you will have no presence. We have some consensual video testimonials that are blurred and voice shifted, but this is optional.
Is it true that we get iPads to watch Alex's instructional videos during the 4wN program?
Yes. The 4 Week Natural program has iPads with all instructional videos for you to watch and learn from at your discretion during the program. These iPads contain instructional videos that cannot be found anywhere online.
What if I have an existing psychological or behavioral condition?
In rare cases, we do have students with existing psychological or behavioural conditions. Be sure to discuss any conditions that may impact your learning experience in depth with Alex before your program start date via the form sent to you. Alex is partially trained as a psychologist to deal with a wide range of psychological or behavioural conditions.
What kind of students does the 4 Week Natural company want to sign up for the program?
Our ideal applicant is someone whoās a high-achiever, self-respecting, outwardly respectful, willing to invest in themselves, and wants to master every part of their life.
Is there anything I should do to prepare for the program?
Yes. Specifically conversation casanova and the premium instructional videos. You will be suggested these resources at the time of placing the deposit.
*Program Results may differ from person to person.
Still have questions?
Live coaching is a very personal experience. Alex is committed to providing you the best experience, so if you have any special needs, concerns, focus, or requests, please arrange a call with Alex.
š„ The 4 Week Natural Medallion š„
In addition to the transformational coaching, we want students to walk away with something material, so every student receives a commemorative medallion at the end of the program.
But the Medallion can also be awarded on merit at any point during the program for valour, dedication, adventure, and excellent implementation of coaching.
Below is the honour board of the first winner of each medallion in past program.
Your first step to making it on this honour board is to Apply for the 4 Week Natural Immersion Program.
Honourboard Of 1st Medallion Recipients
2015š„
Melbourne: Liam
Sydney: Santiago
Stockholm: Adam
Oslo: Chris
London: Jimmy
New York: Brian
Austin: Ryan
2017š„
Sydney: Josh
Helsinki: Stian
Stockholm: Bartek
London: Raphael
Hvar: Federico
2019š„
London: Deniz
Koh Samui: Beni
Austin: Kurt
Amsterdam: Finn
Hvar: Richard & Victor
London: Scott
Melbourne: Si
2021š„
Playa del Carmen #1: Connor & Derek
Playa del Carmen #2: Aram
Austin #1: Ricky
Austin #2: Tom
Hvar #1: Mario
Hvar #2: Ekram
Oslo: Karl
Amsterdam: Emir
Melbourne: Daniel
London #1: Connor
London #2: Jose
2023š„
Playa del Carmen: Salman
New York: Tyler
Melbourne: Simon
London: David
Hvar: Neal, Neils
Tokyo: Jim
Koh Samui:
2016š„
Sydney: Michael
San Diego: Chris
Stockholm: David
London: Adam
Stockholm: Joel
Sydney: Chris
2018š„
Sydney: Scott
Austin: Jose
Chicago: Patrick
Munich: Liam
Hvar: Cameron
London: Phil
Las Vegas: Christian
Bali: Chris
Melbourne: Daniel
2020š„
Koh Samui: Jan
Sydney: Jan
Hvar: Javi
Vienna: Alonso
London: Samir
2022š„
Playa del Carmen #1: Dirk
Miami: Andre
Melbourne #1: Partipan
Melbourne #2: Ryan
Hvar #1: Hans
Hvar #2: Lewis
Helsinki: Lorenz
New York: Fahad
London: Max
Video Testimonials
Cameron, 29 š¦šŗ
Student of Law, Hvar 2018
āIf you are into game, and are able to take/afford a 4WN, but donāt take one, I would assume you are an idiot."
I understand that this post may be extremely long, but I donāt want to make it any shorter)
The purpose of this testimonial is to answer the two questions:
ā Should I take a 4WN?
ā What was my experience on the 4WN (also regarding coaches)?
Short answer: if you are into game, and are able to take/afford a 4WN, but donāt take one, I would assume you are an idiot. I could write a book about my experience, and of all the best moments/stories/people I met during the course, which changed my life forever.
Long answer: So I decided to write this testimonial as a result of my experience on the 2018 Hvar 4WN exceeding my expectations. Coming in to the program I was just average: 6 months into self development (2 months after my first ever approach), but somewhat of a natural in that I had decent social skills, a solid awareness of style/hygiene, and had some history of meeting and dating with people of my younger age of 29. Taking the program was more of a proactive/preventative decision, as I knew (and still know) with passionate intensity that I had the potential to be more than average, but to be very socially dynamic and feel exceedingly comfortable in all social situations.
I came straight from partying in the Greek Islands, and was EXTREMELY nervous and excited to meet what I considered to be role models of mine (Alex), although we had never met. I could not wait to meet all the other students that I had already spoken to, or met before. I was living with Alex for the duration of the program, and was greeted on arrival at our accommodation to a cold beer from Alex. This small act is something I took note ofā¦ though extremely small and arguably meaningless, it showed me what sort of guy he was going to be.
The first week of the program was f***ing insane for me. It was like my whole life up to that point I was waiting for this week to happen. I wont go into the exact details, but it involved meeting numerous people whom I found intimidatingly attractive, people from the Croatian modelling industry, spending time together and connecting, and later on connecting intimately.
I was beginning to see the way forward, and to see how really socially experienced people conduct themselves in way that leads to a happy and abundant social life. The genesis of me becoming a naturally attractive person had begun.
The following two weeks were then an UPHILL struggle: I had a few moments of breakdown, nights out where no one seemed to want to talk to me, and even a night where I had great meetings with new people that I thought went really well, but then they turned their back on me and completely ignored me.
However, the general overall progression was MASSIVE. I developed incredible relationships with the other students spending hours, almost till sunrise, debriefing about the new people weād met/life/spirituality, and made new connections with some truly breath-takingly beautiful new people, meditated by the beautiful Croatian water, and began to finally see the value that so many students so eagerly search for: the feeling of NRYNE. (no reason youāre not enough).
THE DECISIVE MOMENT on my journey, and from this program I will remember forever, which cemented in my mind that if you āremain calm during disaster, and remember the bigger pictureā (quote Alex) you will achieve your own personal greatness.
It was when I was having a near-crying breakdown with a fellow student in the main Hvar square at 2:00am, telling him that I wasnāt meeting the right people, I had gone two weeks without finding my flow or creating new social connections with people.
After my first week of insane fun feeling like i could connect with everyone, and how I had terrible anxiety. I saw a Russian person who I considered to be exceedingly attractive walking through the square, and I decided I had to approach the person (I had made eye contact with the person hours earlier and by chance they were now walking past againā¦ it could have been fate).
Within 10 minutes of meeting and talking we were connecting intimately and kissing, and a moment I shared with them was the strongest social hosting- social consent polarisation I had ever felt in my life, and I felt a strong emotional surge inside me while we stared at each other. It was like nothing I had ever felt before. It was what I considered to be the most attractive person I had ever intimately connected with until that point in my life, and it occurred minutes after I was in full emotional breakdown.
This was the decisive point, or āenglightenmentā that Alex talks about. The point where you give up trying to control fate, or outcomes, or other people and you rely on faith to reciprocate the happiness you consciously put out into the world.
Also, out of a completely random chance, Alex walked through the city centre right past me seconds after this happened, and I had left the person I had just been kissing, as I was head in hands, sitting alone on a bench, feeling like I had just unlocked a new part of myself. He just reassuringly smiled at me, and continued walking on his way with an amazingly attractive and charismatic person heād just metā¦
The 4WN Summit also occurred, I turned 29 while on program (I had the best day of my entire life on a boat with lots of fun attractive people, and with mentors that I looked up to), and I entered the final week of the program. The main change in the final week was the quality of new people I was meeting and connecting with. I was around self respecting flight attendants, athletic Dutch fashion designers, and charming little blonde Swedish people, which Iām still in contact with. All of which i previously would not have been able to handle properly. I began to come full circle, spending a night with a new person Iād met on the āprivateā part of the beach at Carpe Diem Beach Club, which was an amazing experience to spend my final night on courseā¦
Alex was like a big brother to me throughout the program. From telling me how to host intimidatingly attractive Swedish people I met back at my place, to fist bumping me in the morning for taking new life lessons and passing them forward to show other people a good time, to telling me during my social interactions to āknow when to lead, and know when to listenā, to talking me through my crippling anxiety in the club at 1am, to finally giving me a brotherly hug at the end of the program.
He taught me to be normal, have a holistic approach to social event situations, talk slower, and most importantly how to be a good version of myself. How to be a good person.
Coming into the program, Alex had been the biggest influence on my life out of any āinfluencersā I had consumed content from. After meeting him, I realised he was completely socially free, friendly, and could talk for hours about any question you asked him. In one session with him, and he informed me to āhave fun not getting focusing on the prospects of intimacyā (i.e. donāt spend thought and energy trying to forge connections with new people, just be silly and invite other people to join etc.), which resulted in complete hilarity with creating intimate connections at the pizza shop, and also with me trying to jump over tables in the club. He taught me to not care about what people think while still thinking win-win, have fun, how to embrace the chaos, and much more. A weight off my shoulders was lifted.
Alex summed up the coaching to me on the final night with āIf we cant have a beer with each student, then we havenāt done our job rightā. We cheersād to that, and that was itā¦ā
Artimus, 26 š¦šŗ
Performing Arts, 4wN Sydney 2020
So if you get the opportunity, take it. Also, you don't know what's gonna happen to Alex. Maybe he dies in a car crash.
Maybe he decides to retire. Like Alex is going to be a limited resource, even though it seems like it's going to be around forever. He does have plans to retire in the next five years.
I expected Alex to be very professional and to be very knowledgeable, to be quite empathetic and aware of different personalities and nuances within the program because he presents himself that way. And my interactions with him in the past have kind of shown it to be that way. The actual coaching with Alex on program was awesome. Phenomenal.
Alex has got a way of really understanding every person's nuances, where they're at personality wise and you notice this, if you do the program, he's got different ways of speaking to different people that kind of caters to the learning styles, to their personalities, to where they are.
So my partner and I had the experience of sharing an intimate experience with a third person. It was a very, very nice experience because it wasn't just about the physical intimacy, but the emotional connection and shared adventure as well. And the way that Alex teaches social awareness and social generosity allows you to really connect with new people on multiple levels. And we kind of made a friend for life out of it, as well as a intimate partner for the next eight months while they were in Australia.
Sam, 23 š®šŖ
Web Developer, 4wN Thailand 2019
The new social and emotional experiences have been insane, especially weeks after the course, my confidence has shot through the roofā¦ and the quality of new people Iām dating now, I wouldnāt have believed it a year ago.
The 4WN was honestly one of the best things I have ever done in my life. It was insane, fun, challenging, emotional at times and really fucking eye opening.
Before the course I wasnāt completely shit when it comes to meeting new people, but I was definitely making it WAY harder than it had to be. A night out would sometimes feel like a second job, It was pretty exhausting. I would second guess myself on everything and always felt like I needed to watch more content and keep adding more and more stuff before I felt socially competent.
Now after the program I honestly donāt even have to think about it. The ongoing new social experiences and connections have been insane, especially after the course, my confidence has shot through the roof, I feel calm as fuck in social situations and the quality of people Iāve gone on dates with, I wouldnāt have believed it a year ago.
Alex is an amazing coach. I was actually blown away by his skill at coaching alone. He is SO patient with you. Doesnāt matter how silly your questions are, he will take the time to listen and explain it to you in a way that will just āhitā. Everyone on the program got different advice and drills to match their personality and work on the areas they needed to work on. He is a genuinely caring dude and super encouraging. He taught me some huge life lessons like being the leader of others. And simple little things like donāt be so excited when talking to people because itās draining, which made a huge difference in my social life. Not to mention he is fucking fun to go on a night out with. You will definitely have a shit ton of crazy stories after hanging out with this lad!
After the program my social competency got even better. I put way less effort into now. I actually enjoy the new people Iām meeting rather than feeling like I have to try and fit in. Iām traveling Asia running my business with a group of legends.
The course is really fucking fun. Also frustrating and emotional at times. But for the most part really god damn fun. Which is exactly how your social life and interactions when meeting new people should be. Not some big stressful self development exercise that takes all of your time.
HIGHLY recommend it to anyone whoās interested in it.
Chris, 34 šŗšø
Sales Manager, 4wN Austin 2019
Once your mind is stretched and you create new experiences for yourself, your mind canāt return to where it was before the program.
I have attended other live programs in the past and I can confidently say that the 4 Week Natural is the ideal program structure for a student of any skill level. The amount of time spent with an instructor for the price of the program has to be hands down the best dollar per hour value that you can get from a live program. It is an intense immersion system with classroom level theory, real life social application and then debrief. Over and over again so that the fundamental themes are drilled into your focus.
As an instructor, Alex doesnāt just bark instructions at you in a one-size-fits-all manner. Alex takes the time to get to know each student, their personalities, their strengths and he wants to know your goals and where you want to get so that he can tailor the experience to what you want to achieve. Iāve taken other programs where the instructors are very rigid in what they teach. With Alex, you will feel like youāre out with an old friend who knows your personality but also knows how to get you to expand your comfort zone and celebrates your wins with you.
I had been out of the social world for a while when I signed up for my program. My approach anxiety was through the roof. But after focusing on the simple fundamental framework that Alex teaches, and the repetition of the program, I was able to approach groups without being pushed, getting intimate physical connections in the venue and leading new connections by hand out of the bar to another location. For me, that was a drastic change in social abilities in only 2-3 weeks time.
One of the beautiful things about a program like this is that once your mind is stretched and you create new experiences for yourself, your mind canāt return to where it was before the program. When the program is over, youāll carry with you the new things youāve learned that canāt be erased. You carry with you the things you did that you didnāt think you could do. And that creates a new higher baseline of confidence even after Alex is gone.
Outside of the actual live social environment work you do, Alex will consult on your fashion/presentation, take high quality photos for your dating apps, text communication lessons and follow up and a whole lot more. Its not just dating advice, its lifestyle advice too.
In order for real breakthroughs or paradigm-shifts to take root, a weekend or even week-long live program simply canāt be as effective as the 4 Week Natural Program. With the quality of instruction from Alex, time spent in field with him, length of the program and the additional consultation for all the other aspects of your dating life, 4WN is hands-down the best value for your money and the most fun Iāve had on any program, period. I canāt thank Alex enough for all the value he puts into the program, and the effort he gives for you to get the most out of it.
Stian, 30 š³š“
Business Executive, 4wN Helsinki 2017
I can honestly say that Iāve dated people and had relationships with people that would fit right in on the socially āreveredā catwalk. Iāve created so many new attractive connections that I donāt care for that anymore, my focus naturally turns towards a long term relationship and building something deep with someone special.
As Iām now in my thirties I look back and think of what was the best of times, and what was one of the best investments I ever made.
The best of times were weekends with the other students, parties, festivals, hiking, and laughing shitloads. And of course ā meeting new attractive people at the same times.
The best investments I ever did was time and money into personal development. I have done two bootcamps with 4WN, one in Oslo and one in Helsinki some years later. The first time there was something in the back of my head nagging about the amount of money I was spending. The success I had after, the new connections and the relationships I established, made me not care about the money at all. Looking back I would have paid more. The second bootcamp the money didnāt matter ā I knew that Alex was going to deliver and that this would take the rest of my life in a different direction. And he did. I went on about 10 first dates and had several intimate relationships during the bootcamp (like carrie from sex in the city!) and had so much fun with the fellow students. I am actually going to a festival this summer in Germany with two of the guys I met at the Oslo bootcamp way back. I am also keeping in touch with many of the Helsinki guys.
After the bootcamps it has just been so much easier meeting meeting people and getting to connect with people I prefer. I can honestly say that Iāve dated people and had relationships with people that would fit right in on the socially revered catwalk. Iāve created so many new attractive connections that I donāt care for that anymore, my focus naturally turns towards a long term relationship and building something deep with someone special.
For anyone whom meeting a prospective partner is an issue, or you want that super attractive partner, or youāre going through a phase of dating and creating intimacy with many people to find the right connection ā I would not hesitate to do Alexā bootcamp. I think the long format of it is 100% NECESSARY to change how your brain works and have some lasting change in your psychology. And I canāt imagine anyone better than Alex to coach you.
Alex is really good at forming the program for you, based on your personality type. Giving you the right challenges to make a mental switch. SO many nights I went up to Alex and said that I wasnāt feeling it, or whatever it was. Alex would say one sentence and it completely switched my night around. From shit to amazing. This happened again and again, and was something me and the other students were fascinated to experience.
After both bootcamps I felt that Alex went beyond what I hoped for. At the end of it he gives you direction for the future ā and this was extremely helpful for me both times. You definitely get the feeling that you are connecting with Alex on a human/friend level as well. And he puts a lot of effort into finding out what your issues are, and most important move forward from them.
All in all. You will never regret it ā it can only make you better. The money doesnāt mean shit when you have gotten 100x the new exciting connections with people you regard as attractive, compared to if you would with just be doing the same shit as before.
Peter, 27 šØš¦
Copy Writer, 4wN Vienna 2020
āYo, this is Peter - I'm an alumni of Alex's 4WN program in 2020 Austria.
Alex did NOT ask me to write this testimonial and this isn't paid.
The reason I'm writing this is because I feel a moral obligation for anyone on the fence about the 4WN program. It's a life-changing program and deserves its credit.
I'm going to be brutally honest about what you can expect (even the bad parts).
Here's why the program is worth at least 5X more than what you'll invest into it:ā
1.) It's fun as hell
One of the students was a 39-yr-old Indian dude, 5'3" - 5'4" in height, and looked like a mini-Gandhi (not trying to be offensive, that's just what he looked like).
He's in corporate sales and regularly closes deals worth 2 million with confidence. But with prospective partners... he was nervous af. The first night out, I don't think I've seen him approach a single person.
Out of nowhere, about two weeks into the program, he gets a new connection on an insta-date during the day. Then when we wondered where he was at night, he texts us, "Smoking weed and forming and intimate connection with this girl."
He came back with a glow that you couldn't ignore. That dude changed from the inside out.
That's just one story. Salsa dance dates, spontaneous intimate connections, making new connections with twins and then going on to an after party with them... and btw, this was all during lockdown.
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2.) You're gonna get lifelong results
"But what about the number of people you intimately connected with?! How much physical intimacy did you guys get?!"
Simmer down.
Advanced social people will probably do better on this program in terms of numbers. But that's not really the point.
If you're a bit newer, you're gonna go through an internal change before the external new experiences follow.
The month in Vienna was honestly a tough journey - every guy hit an emotional wall about two weeks in, and Alex warned us of this.
But even when warned, it still hits hard. You start disliking the process, you grow contempt for prospective partners, you start wondering why you're even doing this... all you wanted was just a cute loyal partner.
But when you get over that wall, you'll be transformed from the inside out.
The month following the program, me and two other 4WN clients went to Poland for a month.
After some recovery from the intense 4WN program, we felt recharged and went back out to social events. Started getting dates left and right - I think at one point we were all getting 3-5 new dates a week.
(Btw, one of the clients was a completely inexperienced with physical intimacy - that didn't last long.)
And not only will you see changes in yourself and new experiences of connection... you'll feel a definite shift in your identity.
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3.) You change as an individual
One of the main points Alex told me was to stop being a immature, and step into being a mature.
I was 27-yrs-old at that point, yet my mindset was still as if I was 21-yrs-old.
I didn't notice this at all, but Alex noticed it right away.
I was passive, waiting for direction from a coach, and permission to act. In social situations, I was looking for permission to express myself... instead of just giving myself that permission.
That not only held me back in dating, it held me back in business and all my relationships.
This is core to what Alex teaches - you're not taught to be a mindless socialising zombie like on other bootcamps. You're not gonna be ordered around to "go approach that person. okay, now do that one. Okay, now do this.
You're going to be trained to become your own individual mature version of yourself - so that you'll never need another dating program again.
Yes, if you're newer, Alex will give you direction and instructions. But ultimately, you'll be challenged to level up to your highest potential.
Now this connects to the next point.
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4.) Personalized and custom feedback
After every session, there will be a group debrief to help you go over what you did well and what you could have done better.
Alex has a way of knowing the exact sticking point that's going on in your head - and sticking points you are not even aware of.
Something you might think is a technical mistake, is actually a mindset mistake - but you'd never know unless someone experienced pointed it out.
And on top of this, you get an one hour 1-on-1 session with Alex each week where he'll pinpoint the exact area you need to grow.
For me, this was deep advice I never got from anyone in my life. Sometimes, it was advice I didn't want to hear. Sometimes, I thought he pointed out problems I didn't really have. But when I let the advice sink in... it was pretty obvious Alex was right.
If you've been hardstuck for a while, you'll definitely get the feedback you need here.
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5.) Holistic social approach based on self faith, not focused on tiny details
Some people like optimising every minute detail of their social demenour - they love the technical aspect.
If that's you, then cool. I'd rather be a natural.
Today, the only challenge I have is getting prospective partners out to meet for the first time.
After that, there's zero doubt in my mind that if they spend a couple hours with me they will like me. Now I'm more anxious about me not liking the prospective partner, vs. being liked by them.
The amount of control and power I feel now compared to before is unparalleled.
"There's no reason why you're not enough." It's one thing to understand it intellectually... a completely different thing to feel it to your core.
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Okay, that's pretty much it for the overview.
For me, this was the last dating program I'll ever need. And I think it will be for you too.ā - Peter
Mitch, 28 š¬š§
Biological Scientist, 4wn London 2018
āThe two biggest takeaways for me was that there really is no reason why Iām not enough, which I learnt from the experiences and adventures. The second is my motivation to bring out the best of the new person when I meet them. I want to find out who the person is ā connect with them on positive emotions, connect with them on vulnerable emotions, their intimacy, their heartās desire, how they like to express themselves, all that good authentic stuff.
Hi 4WN world š . If you are considering doing a 4WN, hopefully this will help you make the right decision. Itās my experience this past month (Sep-Oct) in London. Enjoy!
Itās hard to know where to start. How do you put into words one of the most deep and real emotional experiences of your life? How do you communicate the feelings that come with growth and the āultimate state of evolutionā? All I can really do here is record my own experience, my own change, my own results, and my own 4 Week Natural. That really summarises what is the best part of this program: itās tailored to you and your own character. I was never treated as just some other student ā none of us were. It wasnāt a āone size fits allā way of thinking. We were treated as real people, with very real expectations and very real compassion, and thatās what brought out our best. And who better to bring out the best in you, hold you accountable, and teach you everything you need to know about socialising and personal growth, but a world class social coach: Alex.
From the beginning we were dedicated to self development ā six of us, all from different walks of life. We each wanted change, and we each wanted the answers to so many questions. When Alex first greeted us, he had a gleam in his eye; and by the end of the program I could see something similar in each of my fellow students. He told us what to expect, both emotionally and physically, and he told us what he expected from us. The atmosphere was positive.
After the introduction it was straight to business ā our first night out. From the first venue, Alex was straight on it: āI can see what level everyone is at, just by watching them in set nowā¦ā. He gave me such useful feedback from the get go. He encouraged me not to camp too long on one particular group, and before I knew it I had a good connection going with an attractive person at the bar.
My friends already had the attention of most of the people at the first venue; we were the exciting people to meet.
Alex reminded me to propose going from the bar out to a restaurant with a new person I had met, and we walked out together when the venue closed (I would later learn that this is one of the most crucial parts of meeting new people ā have a fun plan to keep the connection going at the end of an event, to be the āperson with a planā).
The first weekend was incredible fun. I started more conversations than I could count, and learnt so much that my brain literally hurt. It was brilliant.
The de-briefs following each session were beyond next level and beyond what we could have ever expected. Alex explained our interactions and the psychology at play (both in us and the people we met) to incredible depth and high level. From the beginning it opened up a new way of thinking, and more importantly a much healthier understanding of ourselves and of new people when meeting them for the first time. Including what theyāre looking for when they meet someone new, and how they feel about meeting someone new.
The coach was patient and answered all of our questions. Some of what he told us was difficult to hear because it demanded real change within us, and letting go of parts of our own way of thinking, but thatās why we chose to do it ā not for cheap social āresultsā but for authentic internal change, understanding and freedom.
What really hit home was how passionate Alex was, regardless of if he was tired or heād had little sleep, everyday he was always on point. He also gave us so so many bonus sessions (both events during the day and events during the evening), discussions about our communication traits that need adjusting, and ample personal time to discuss personal matters.
He was so invested in our goals to become socially normal, and socially experienced. It was awesome.
The best part was doing it with the other attendees.
Our stories, our enthusiasm, and our collective new experiences created an amazing collective group dynamic.
In the beginning, everyone is so positive and empowered. In terms of personal insightsā¦ wellā¦ letās just say every time we met up everyone had an idea to share to share, or a lesson to discuss.
The days of leaving a social event alone and confused were a thing of the past (or at least became a rarity). The new reality is leaving social events with friends, new connections, off to parties, or going off to sit down and have food with new people weād met.
In terms of day time socialising, I had three spontaneous conversational connections that lead to sit down datesā¦ and, an exchange of phone numbers all on the first weekend.
Becoming socially outgoing and normalising new connections became the norm for all of us.
Everyday I would wake up, look at my phone, and it would be either full of messages from people I had newly connected with, or interesting stories about fun experiences with new people the attendees had met, posted on the group chat. There was a lot going on.
As the program progressed everyone had more and more new and exciting social experiences, but what was really inspiring was seeing the change start to take place in the other students.
One of the guys who had initially come across as a very serious person, became brighter in the face and more expressive, and to a different student, I remember saying āDude you look really happy and relaxed..ā āI know.. itās like Alex has pulled the plug on a lot of the stuff I had in my head before.. now Iām not hard on myself, Iām no longer self confrontational...it feels goodā.
The effect Alex was having on us, and that we were having on each other, was very real. I canāt quite describe the feeling of knowing that your coach and fellow attendees are wanting you to learn and grow.
Overcoming personal obstacles, encouraging you to continue to learn, pushing you beyond your comfort zone.
When we had new experiences, and demonstrated the principles of normal socialisation, Alex would be ecstatic ā it was a powerful thing.
He taught us how to properly understand new people we were meeting, how to have an awareness of the dynamics of social events, how to fully express ourselves, how to make a plan after a social event has concluded, the list goes on.
Our group was solid; most of us already had a lot of social experience from the beginning, which meant that we each learnt so much from one another, as well as our coach.
To top it off, Alex also took us out to take dating app photos with his Hasselblad professional camera (this photo shoot itself is worth 2K.. but he gave it us for free as part of the program). We also had the chance to meet the other 4WN alumni in London, which was a great opportunity to network.
At the end of the program we all celebrated together; no longer just students but steadfast friends.
Each of us had learned a lot, and each of us had earned each othersā respect. It was so sad when the time came for Alex to leave, and I could have sworn I saw a tear in his eye when he did š.
After he had left, we shared a cigar, and each of us shared to the group what we respected about each other individually. It was my favourite moment of the program. I didnāt know these guys 4 weeks previous.. but now I felt like I had known them for years. They think like me, they share the same values that I do, and they are good people.
How has the 4WN changed my life? The two biggest takeaways for me was that there really is no reason why Iām not enough, which I learnt from the experiences and adventures. The second is my motivation to bring out the best of the new person when I meet them. I want to find out who the person is ā connect with them on positive emotions, connect with them on vulnerable emotions, their sexuality, their heartās desire, how they likes to express themselves, all that good authentic stuff.
Thatās what sparks the gleam in my eye, and that is my role as an empowered person. No more social conditioning fogging it up. I simply ask myself āhow can I make this easy for the person Iām meeting, and how can I make this easy for me?ā Simples.
Alex I canāt thank you enough. You changed the Game for us all, and the 4WNLondon2018 salutes you.
Bob, 54 šŗšø
Commercial Airline Pilot, 4wN Sydney 2017
Working with Alex James and the 4WNatural program literally saved my life.
Prior to working with Alex, I was an emotional mess. My self esteem and self confidence was very low. And surprisingly, I am quite an accomplished professional in many aspects of my life, but I suffered this lack of self confidence for most of my life.
Working with Alex and watching his YouTube Channel completely changed my life. I have never felt so good and so healthy and so self confident. I believe every high school senior should work with Alex. It would save them a lifetime of heart aches and disappointment. These five letters saved my life: NRYNE. No Reason Youāre Not Enough. Brilliant! And itās all from Alex James.
Whenever I worked with Alex, he gave me his undivided attention. Even when he had eleven other students, Alex always made me feel like I was his only one. He is the consummate professional and his knowledge of people of all genders in the dating game, and relationships is second to no one. He is the real deal and I highly recommended any person of any age to work with Alex and take advantage of his knowledge and life lessons.
My only regret is that I had to wait till I was much older in life to meet Alex. I have never felt better about myself since working with him. Alex James is simply, THE BEST!
How To Join
1. Option 1: Click Join
We have strict criteria for acceptance to a 4 Week Natural Immersion program. You must be a proficient communicator, fit the group mentality and be emotionally prepared for the training.
2. Option 2: Book Screening Call
If your application meets our initial criteria, you must book a final screening call with Alex. This is also your chance to ask questions about the program and discuss specific needs and goals.
3. Complete Registration
If accepted, you'll need to place a deposit for the program, commence online training to prepare you, create an introduction video and join a group chat with other program participants.
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